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Hear the full episode #293 “Viva la Resistance” here. 

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  • Even with persistence, grind, & drive, sometimes we still can’t seem to click to that next level. Why is that?
  • In his book, Do the Work, author Steven Pressfield writes that he knows the forces holding you back: Resistance, Rational thought, & Your friends and family. 
  • Resistance is hu-u-uge!
    • Resistance is taking the discount of now in lieu of a better tomorrow. (i.e. Blue Bell vs working out.)
    • Resistance is invisible so you can’t detect it when it’s all over you.
      • Most of us live in the 8th day of the week…Someday.
    • Resistance is insidious. (subtle)
    • Resistance will take on any form. She’ll your best friend one minute and your worst enemy the next.

“Resistance has no conscience-it’ll do anything to get a deal done then double cross you. If you take resistance at its word, you deserve everything you get because resistance is always lying and full of shit. ” ~Steven Pressfield

  • Resistance is impersonal and doesn’t care who you are-she’s coming for us all.
    • Resistance never sleeps and plays for keeps. 
    • Resistance is keeping you from your calling.
  • Rational Thought is the 2nd force holding you back.
    • There’s nothing rational about breaking from the herd…doing what others say can’t be done & that there’s no way!
    • Sara Blakely  sure didn’t think rational when she converted a pair of pantie-hose.
      • They laughed her out of their offices..they told her that her idea was ridiculous, but with a net worth of over $1 billion, who’s laughing now?
    • What’s rational about selling books out of your garage, calling it Amazon and now you’re the richest man in the world? 
    • Screw rational.
    • One of the only times you should use logic in sales is when preparing for what steps you need to take today to make epic shit happen.
  • Your friends and family are holding you back too.Your family sees you as you are not as you could be.
    • They’re using their own rational thought & resistance to say, “That’s far enough.” “Don’t rock the boat.” “Get a steady job.”

Those are the 3 forces holding you back. Next time we’ll look at the multipliers that’ll sling-shot you forward…and being stupid is one of them.

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Ever have one of those days where you’re just frustrated and don’t know why? Like you just want to palm the guy’s face talking to you. I was having one of those days…weeks actually and didn’t know why and because I didn’t know why, just made me more more frustrated. Then it came to me… I stopped asking questions & when you no longer ask, the Universe answers with nothing. When you don’t ask questions, you end up working with dis-empowering, limited statements, such as “I’ll never get promoted;” “I’ll never get out of debt;” “I’ll never find the right one;” “I’ll never get ahead.” 

Asking yourself good, open-ended questions-with no preconceived notions of how or when it’ll arrive gives your mind space to go to work and find and answers instead of just accepting what is and filling in the blank (with bullshit).

Take a few minutes to have a conversation with yourself-don’t worry people will think you’re just using your Bluetooth. I talk to myself in 3rd party asking, “So how are you feeling today, Marsh?” and I’ll answer the question. Sometimes the answer back is a river; other times it’s a quick riff. I even give myself advice as if I’m someone else giving Marsh advice. And it works, because  tossing up questions gives me a chance to unravel Life’s knot.

If you find yourself frustrated, start asking questions. On the way to work; in the shower; walking to your car; just randomly ask. You don’t need to know all of the answers, just ask the questions and let Life go to work for you.

Click to listen to the whole episode The Sales Life w Marsh Buice here or find it on iTunes, Sticher, or your favorite podcast platform.